A Love Story for the Ages: Remembering the Life and Impact of Aba, Beloved Wife of an Influential Leader
In a heartfelt letter, an influential leader pays tribute to his beloved wife, Aba, reflecting on the profound love and cherished memories they shared throughout their 62-year journey together. From their serendipitous meeting in London to their enduring commitment in the face of adversity, this couple’s love story serves as an inspiring testament to resilience, sacrifice, and unwavering devotion.
Their paths converged on July 1, 1961, during a momentous celebration of Ghana’s first anniversary as a republic. Introduced by their mutual friend, Aba and her future husband, whose name remains undisclosed, found themselves captivated by each other’s presence. Aba, having just completed nursing school in Edinburgh and pursuing further studies in midwifery at Oxford University, exuded grace and gentleness. Their shared cultural interests, from art to music and cinema, fostered a deep connection, leading them to make the decision to forge a life together.
In the subsequent years, their bond strengthened as they welcomed their first child, Chief, in September 1963. Completing their studies in Oxford, they relocated to London, commencing their professional journeys. However, familial pressure prompted their return to Ghana, where they faced unexpected challenges. Despite political turbulence and an unjust coup d’état in January 1972, which resulted in their imprisonment, Aba’s unwavering strength and unyielding faith in God sustained their family through this dark period. Amidst adversity, she single-handedly raised their five children, including the birth of their last child, Kofi, while her husband was detained.
Aba’s indomitable spirit shone brightly, allowing her to flourish in every environment she encountered. Transitioning from a vibrant political and diplomatic life in Accra, she resumed her nursing career at Cocoa Clinic, where she eventually became the clinic’s matron. Beyond her professional success, Aba played a pivotal role in shaping social interventions during her husband’s presidency. Her contributions encompassed the inclusion of kindergarten in the Free Compulsory Universal Basic Education policy, providing daily meals to primary school children nationwide, launching the National Health Insurance Scheme, and advocating for free maternal care. Moreover, she founded the Mother and Child Community Development Foundation, which supported early childhood development programs and contributed to numerous community initiatives.
Throughout their journey, Aba and her husband shared a deep sense of humor, allowing them to find joy in one another and forgive each other’s imperfections. Together, they embarked on countless trips, creating cherished memories. Aba’s unwavering devotion to her Catholic faith remained a steadfast pillar in her life, and she was recognized by Pope Benedict XVI, receiving the prestigious Papal award of Dame of St Gregory the Great. As Aba’s husband mourns her departure, he finds solace in their shared blessings: a lifetime of love, beautiful children, and grandchildren, the honor of serving their nation, and a network of cherished friends.
In bidding farewell to Aba, her husband acknowledges the void left in his life, yet finds comfort in the numerous mercies and blessings bestowed upon them. Aba’s life exemplified endurance, faith, and a love that transcends time. Her husband concludes with a poignant biblical quote, celebrating her unwavering dedication: “You have fought the good fight, you have finished the race, you have kept the faith.” Aba, a shining example of love and resilience, will forever be remembered and cherished by those who were touched by her remarkable presence.
Farewell, Aba—Adieu, Dearest Love.